Sunday, December 15, 2013

Fixating on a memory... sweet... painful... why?

Sometimes I get stuck on romantic memories.
Why? What good does it do me. Nothing. It makes me wish that I was still being pursued. It makes me wonder what would have happened if I had be vulnerable and returned the love of another. Then it makes me question what makes me feel so loved in those moments.
Should I tell those moments that were so wonderful?
Should I remember them at all?
It helps nothing to fixate.
Overall, I have learned that I stop any relationship prematurely. I leave, I check out, move or just talk myself out, without even talking to the person. What I need to do in the future is talk, show affection, and tough in out.

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