Sunday, December 22, 2013
2 Corinthians 3:3
And you show that you are a letter from Christ delivered by us, written not with ink but with the Spirit of the living God, not on tablets of stone but on tablets of human hearts
Sunday, December 15, 2013
Fixating on a memory... sweet... painful... why?
Sometimes I get stuck on romantic memories.
Why? What good does it do me. Nothing. It makes me wish that I was still being pursued. It makes me wonder what would have happened if I had be vulnerable and returned the love of another. Then it makes me question what makes me feel so loved in those moments.
Should I tell those moments that were so wonderful?
Should I remember them at all?
It helps nothing to fixate.
Overall, I have learned that I stop any relationship prematurely. I leave, I check out, move or just talk myself out, without even talking to the person. What I need to do in the future is talk, show affection, and tough in out.
Why? What good does it do me. Nothing. It makes me wish that I was still being pursued. It makes me wonder what would have happened if I had be vulnerable and returned the love of another. Then it makes me question what makes me feel so loved in those moments.
Should I tell those moments that were so wonderful?
Should I remember them at all?
It helps nothing to fixate.
Overall, I have learned that I stop any relationship prematurely. I leave, I check out, move or just talk myself out, without even talking to the person. What I need to do in the future is talk, show affection, and tough in out.
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